Family Mediation: Misconceptions of Mediation
Here is part two of our two-part blog on Family Mediation. Did you see part one, that can be found here.
Despite its many benefits, family mediation is often misunderstood. These common myths can stop people from exploring a process that might be the best solution for their family dispute.
- “The Mediator Takes Sides”
A trained mediator is a neutral professional whose role is to facilitate discussion, not to advocate for one party or the other. They don’t make decisions or judge who is right or wrong. Their job is to keep conversations productive, respectful, and focused on finding common ground.
- “You Lose Control by Using Mediation”
In fact, mediation puts more control in your hands compared to court proceedings. Instead of having a judge decide your fate, you and the other party actively participate in crafting an agreement that works for both of you. This can lead to more creative, flexible solutions tailored to your family’s unique needs.
- “Mediation Means You Have to Meet Face-to-Face and Talk Things Out”
While face-to-face sessions are common, mediation can also take place by video conference. There is also the possibility of conducting “shuttle mediations” which is a process where the mediator keeps the parties in separate rooms (or separate virtual rooms) and moves – or “shuttles” – between them to help negotiate a settlement. Mediators adapt the process to suit participants’ comfort and circumstances.
- “If Mediation Fails, You’ve Wasted Time and Money”
Even if mediation doesn’t resolve every issue, it usually narrows down disputes and improves communication, which can save time and money in any subsequent court proceedings. Mediation often lays the groundwork for more productive negotiations or settlement discussions later on.
The Bottom Line
Family mediation is a flexible and affordable way to resolve disputes without the emotional and financial costs of litigation. Whether you’re facing divorce, child custody issues, or other family conflicts, mediation can help you move forward with less hostility and more control over the outcome.
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